Meanwhile, we go about our lives creating new stories and new mind-marks. Some we never forget. They seem to hold the key to our hearts, the key to our happiness, the key to our peace. Do you have one specific story that holds that much power in your life? Or do you have a few of them?

We choose to be single sometimes from an early age. Other times, after we have experienced being in several relationships, including marriage(s). Perhaps, we are turned off. Perhaps, we lost trust. Perhaps, we have been hurt so badly, that we vow to never allow another person to have this power over us to the point of being broken and shattered. Perhaps, we realized, we are …

Did you know that the behaviour you tolerate at the start of a new relationship SETS THE TONE for how you are treated after the honeymoon is over?

Yet another love article. Another one among many already posted and perhaps more to come. As long as we are alive, we will keep wondering, pondering and trying to understand the big L word. We can’t help ourselves. We are always questioning. We crave to find answers so we can find peace. Some of us can’t get out of bed, while some can’t function a day, others won’t be able to focus - not until we reach to some sort of conclusion in our minds about why, how and what we feel, where it’s leading us and what actions should we take moving forward. We are questioning constantly … Is it love?

Maybe you knew that this man was 'taken' when you first got involved and maybe you were deceived. The point here, from the moment you found out he has another woman in his life, why did you continue? Were you hoping he would leave her to be with you?

This is the million dollar question: why don’t we?  What stops us from taking action. What blinds us from seeing the signs of things going downhill? Why do we only notice when things have gotten really bad. It’s not like we are not aware. We can see things are changing and not the same, but it’s like we just watch as a spectator, as our life unfolds and take different turns. One day we may reach a point of no return and walk away from it all.