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Learn & Grow

“Every day we have an opportunity to learn something new, to let go of what held us back, to grow into the joyful beings we are meant to be, to rise over every challenge that come our way and to re-write our story.”

—Rania Effat

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Every Woman’s Scripture

Did you know that the behaviour you tolerate at the start of a new relationship SETS THE TONE for how you are treated after the honeymoon is over?

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When will my fear end from the EX-Narcissist?

Fear is a state we allow ourselves to live in. You might be surprised if you shift your outlook and dust off the dirt on your inner strength and wisdom. You are actually capable of so much more than you are giving yourself credit for. In fact, you are …

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We don’t lose anyone

People come and go out of your life continuously. There are some people whom you have known your whole life. These people they are connected to …

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Did You Learn Anything?

Perhaps, we changed or grew. Now whether we grew bitter or grew grateful, that’s a choice we make as we allow what transpired to influence our thoughts and feelings. How we ..

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Do you believe in Second Chances?

we must assert our boundaries and set an example for not tolerating what need not be tolerated. You may give a second chance for someone to correct their behaviour, but when they fail the second time around, there need not be a third. For in the third or more times to follow, it is ..

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The Silent Treatment

In any case, giving someone the silent treatment must have a cause and effect. For starters, something triggered this extreme behaviour. The fact you reached the point where you don’t want to talk to that person or see them. And the situation gets

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Do we SELF-SABOTAGE mindlessly?

We all go about ‘obtaining’ what we want or need in different ways. We don’t all want the same exact thing. There are several factors that influence who we become, the goals we aspire to, the methods we use to …

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What makes a Man ‘A REAL MAN’

A real man does not have to try hard to be one. He does not need to prove he is one and most definitely does not require to show dominance over another human being to be rewarded with ‘Manhood’. There is nothing to be proud of when a Man ..

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The Right Thing To Do

the universe is sending you a message. A clear message. To not deny your feelings. To not sacrifice your happiness in order to

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Why Men sabotage a Good Relationship

… there are times when a man will destroy a relationship at the slightest difference or at the first conflict arising. What does it say about the relationship? What does it indicate about the man?

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Is there a Forever?

I ponder on the thought of “forever”. Whether in the sense of a relationship, marriage or even love itself. Does love last forever? Do marriages last forever anymore? Can any relation last forever for that matter?

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IS IT LOVE?

Yet another love article. Another one among many already posted and perhaps more to come. As long as we are alive, we will keep wondering, pondering and trying to understand the big L word. We can’t help ourselves. We are always questioning. We crave to find answers so we can find peace. Some of us can’t get out of bed, while some can’t function a day, others won’t be able to focus - not until we reach to some sort of conclusion in our minds about why, how and what we feel, where it’s leading us and what actions should we take moving forward. We are questioning constantly … Is it love?

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TRUST

The thing about Trust is that we take it for granted in our day to day lives. We don’t realize how much faith and trust we are putting into people in general …… You see, there are many reasons why people lie, keep secrets, cheat, inflict harm, whatever it may be, and in return, there are many ways we handle those findings.

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The Other Woman

Maybe you knew that this man was 'taken' when you first got involved and maybe you were deceived. The point here, from the moment you found out he has another woman in his life, why did you continue? Were you hoping he would leave her to be with you?

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Forgiveness

The lesson I learned is that not only is it important to forgive those who wronged you, but it is even more important to forgive yourself for the wrongs you have done. It will not get you anywhere to keep punishing yourself for something that passed.

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When men get married

What happens to men when they tie the knot? Why do they change dramatically? Some change to the better, while some to the worst, in comparison to who they were showing themselves to be before marriage. Every case is different, not all men are the same, however, the common denominator is that they do change.

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What happened to our intimacy?

A question many couples ask when they hit a solid wall in their relationship. Whether they have been dating for years, living together, or married with children. There are many common influences that cause the end result of a lack of intimacy and an apparent detachment. Just as intimacy took some time to be built, it also took some time to be lost.

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Secrets of a Self-Sacrificing Woman

Every woman holds secrets that she keeps locked in her heart. She does not speak of them to anyone. Only she knows how she feels. Because only she endured what she decided to endure.

It’s not like this woman wanted the suffering. But she chose it. Why did she? Is the better question to be asked. What made her sacrifice herself?

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